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by Carmella on 2005 Jul 18 - 16:44 | reply to this comment

long hair in women of a certain age

A long haired wig would not be acceptable to me. If long hair (middle of the back at least) doesn't seem appropriate, it can, as someone here suggested, be worn up in a bun or some other arrangment. But I want to be able to control her -- actually rather often -- by winding a hand in her hair. This also precludes those plasticized sculptural arrangements that cause problems at night lest they collapse on the pillow. Just hate that hissing noise as they collapse.

And I want to be able to loosen her hair myself. It has seemed with several women that when I loosen their long hair, it releases something else about them -- internal attitude, I suppose -- and she breathes deeper and becomes ready much more quickly and surely. I find, generally, that brushing and adjusting and fiddling with it gives many opportunities for her to show off various interesting things. Most have enjoyed that, as I certainly do.

As for other comments on clothing here, I abhor pantyhose and never permit them in the house, nor let my woman wear them. No exceptions; they appear to me to be a sort of armor and I don't want my woman armored, interfering with my access to her (that's the reason I have a bias againt pants of any kind as well). If hose are indicated for some reason, garter belts present many opportunites (eg, just too tight, or a different than the usual sort -- my choice of course) which are meant to, and often do, keep her aware of her body during the day or when we go out in public, in the way I prefer. Her glow in such cases is most interesting.

Quite a satisfactory set of policies, in most respects, for both of us. Despite occasional plaints that she's nothing (stylish) to wear. That's rare though, and disapproved, for she's a closet full of things.

Having said all this, I have to say that I leave to her the choice of clothes. I simply veto anything I find impossible when she uncharacteristically brings home something unacceptable to me.

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Sep 8 - 14:10 | reply to this comment

Pants and ease of access

My husband has never had any difficulty accessing me through pants,he can get his hand down them as easily as he can get it up a skirt. What kind of pants have you had experience of? Steel plated or something?

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